Her interest in this field started in her teen years when her mother and father divorced.  She was shocked and devastated.  Then when her own marriage of 20 years ended she was heart broken and once again wondered how two people who love each other could so deeply misunderstand and hurt each other.  She became determined to discover what creates a great, loving relationship.

Even though she was licensed and practicing as a marriage and family therapist. Dr. Sherie realized that she really didn’t understand men.  She did her doctoral dissertation for her P.H.D. in psychology on Male Inexpression of Emotion.  The subject was fascinating to her and she began an in depth study of male/female differences.  What she learned transformed forever the way she perceives and interacts with all of the men in her life. 

Fifteen years ago she married the man of her dreams, Paul Zander.  She is convinced that without the knowledge of these powerful principles their marriage would not have lasted a year. 

Dr. Sherie Zander created Can’t Love Without It, a company dedicated to providing amazing information about male/female differences that has transformed hundreds of relationships.

Her daughter, Keri Newell, established Can’t Date Without It, giving men and women the opportunity to move from mystery to mastery in the complex world of dating. 

This mother/daughter team is unique.  Together they offer a variety of seminars, provide individual coaching, and are sought after as workshop leaders and public speakers, working with live audiences and on radio and TV.  Appearances include:

• TV Bride
• Judy Kerr’s Acting Workshop
• Shrink Rap- KCSN
• Women of Witness
• The Foundry
• National Association of Professional Organizers
• Keynote speaker for Brentwood Presbyterian Women’s Annual Breakfast Meeting
• Keynote speaker for Bel Air Presbyterian Men’s Saturday Morning Breakfast Meeting
• Prime Time Married Couples